While perhaps pitch dark is excessive, mood light can, in fact, have a real impact on your sex drive––so blown out grocery store bulbs can, in fact, operate as a “boner killer.”
Herein, do people prefer sex with lights on or off?
Turns out 60 percent of people are fans of lights-on sex, while the remaining 40 percent like getting it on with the lights off, according to a recent poll from Osram Sylvania.
Simply so, is it weird to have sex with the lights off?
Start with the lights dimmed — not fully on, but not fully off either — or in natural light, so something like morning sex or an afternoon delight. “Dimmed light sex can set a more sensual mood than having the lights on full, while still allowing both parties to see everything that is going on,” Mahalli said.
How do you get comfortable with lights on during sex?
Tell them how it makes you feel, but don’t manipulate the situation or make them feel guilty – understand that they have insecurities. Reassure them, too. Tell them why you want to do it with the lights on, why you want to see them and what you love about their body.