Carol Queen, an American author, editor, sociologist, and sexologist, may help you find an answer to this: “Slower sex and a longer buildup can result in stronger orgasms for many people (a simple comparison is that you’re building up a ‘charge’ in your body that releases with a climax, and a longer charge can elicit a …
Furthermore, how fast should you go sex?
The results: 1–2 minutes was judged “too short,” while 10–30 minutes was deemed “too long.” On the other hand, 3–7 minutes was rated “adequate,” and 7–13 minutes “desirable” (Corty, 2008).