12 years is no big deal. I would say 80% of guys I’ve been with have been at least 10 years older than me and age was never an issue. The biggest age gap I’ve had was 18 years. He was 38 and I was 20.
Correspondingly, what is an acceptable age gap?
This rule states that by dividing your own age by two and then adding seven you can find the socially acceptable minimum age of anyone you want to date. So if you’re a 24-year-old, you can feel free to be with anyone who is at least 19 (12 + 7) but not someone who is 18.
Furthermore, is a 10-year age difference too much?
Anything more than a 10–year age gap means partners grew up in different eras and might have different life expectations. … But according to Nelson, while there is no true age limit to dating between consenting adults, a 10–year age difference can mean partners grew up in different generations.
Does a 20 year age difference matter?
Research has found that the age gap between a 20–year-old and a 40-year-old can cause more issues than the gap between, say, a 50-year-old and a 70-year-old.
According to the results of a survey conducted by Nikah Forever, a majority of respondents agreed that between three and five years was an acceptable age gap between a husband and wife. This share was higher among women than men during the survey period.
“Age shouldn’t be the defining factor for marriage. The most important thing is that there is love, understanding and maturity between partners. Notwithstanding the stories of older men being more mature, there are still young guys who love and respect their wives,” she said.
9 years certainly isn’t a small age gap, but it’s by no means the largest I’ve seen in a successful relationship. Relative age is just one factor of many that plays into the dynamics of a relationship. … So long as they’re both emotionally and legally adults an age gap doesn’t matter, 9 years or 39 years, whatever.
A marriage with a 10-year age difference between the spouses has a better shot of survival if both the partners are matured and settled in their lives.
It can be the early 20s or late 30s. If the person has established oneself and feels like one should share the life with another individual, one should go for it. In India, getting married at a certain age is nothing but societal pressure, and that’s why this question about age pops up more often.
Studies have found partners with more than a 10–year gap in age experience social disapproval. But when it comes to our own relationships, both men and women prefer someone their own age, but are open to someone 10-15 years their junior or senior.
‘ The graphs show a worrying sliding scale where both 20-year-old and 49-year-old men both cite women aged 20 as what they find the most attractive. The age of a woman men find most attractive never makes it above 24.
Does Age Really Matter in Relationships? Generally, it doesn’t. A relationship depends on the understanding and connection between two individuals, regardless of their age. A couple can have a strong relationship as long as they love, respect and care for each other.